PLEASE BE AWARE THIS VIDEO AND BLOG POST WAS A TUTORIAL
ON HOW NOT TO USE FACEBOOK.. SO THAT OTHERS ARE NOT PUT AT RISK
THE UPDATED NOTES WITHIN THIS BLOG POST POSED A QUESTION
EACH TIME THE QUESTION WAS NEVER ANSWERED
PEOPLE TOOK THIS AS SLANDER
ACCUSATIONS, AND POINTING FINGERS
IT WAS ONE PARENT TRYING TO GET ANSWERS
RATHER THAN JUST CALLING THE POLICE
ONE MAN ROPED INTO THIS MANAGED TO BRIDGE THE VOID
AND HELP SOLVE THAT UNRESOLVED CONFUSION
KEV IS "NOT" STEALING PHOTOS NOR IS HE A PEDOPHILE
KEV WAS PROTECTING HIS PHOTOS FROM BEING SPLATTERED ALL OVER THE WEB
I HAVE SPOKEN TO KEV VIA A FRIEND I TRUST, A FRIEND WHO ALSO SAYS IT HOW IT IS
THE ISSUE HERE OF "WHY WHY WHY" WAS PROVIDED BY OTHER PEOPLE
WHO GOT IN THE MIDDLE WHILE ME AND KEV COULDN'T SEE EACH OTHER
AGAIN REMEMBER THAT WAS CAUSED BY OTHER PEOPLE
PEOPLE WHO TRIED TO HELP ACTUALLY MADE IT WORSE
WHILE HE HAD NO IDEA.. AND I KEPT ASKING AND SEARCHING
THE POLICE ARE NOT REQUIRED!!!
AND A VIDEO HAS BEEN MADE EXPLAINING WHY THIS WENT DOWN THIS ROAD
AND ITS A FORMAL APOLOGY
THE APOLOGY IS FOR THE DISTRESS CAUSED
BY PEOPLES REACTION TO HIS MENTION IN THE VIDEO AND HERE
AND OTHER NOTES OF SUSPICIOUS ACTIVITY
BUT NO ONE WAS ACCUSED...
THE MAN IS INNOCENT AND DUE TO THE HASTE OF 2 PEOPLE
IT SNOW BALLED INTO THAT PATH OF.. WHY... IN MY MIND
AND YOUR MINDS TOO
BUT PLEASE LEAVE THE FKN GUY ALONE!!!!!
AND BEFORE YOU WATCH THIS TUTORIAL
AND FORGET WHAT THE HELL IT WAS ACTUALLY ABOUT
WATCH THIS VIDEO FIRST THEN COME BACK HERE AND L:EARN
ALSO SEE THIS BLOG POST HERE
YOUR MEANT TO GO LOCK DOWN YOUR OWN FACEBOOK PROFILE
AND YOUR KIDS PROFILE AND WARN YOUR FRIENDS WHO TAG YOU
NOT STALK PEOPLE.... OVER A PROFILE REFERENCED WITHIN A TUTORIAL
THIS IS PART OF THE TUTORIAL WARNING OF ONE TACTIC
OTHERS JUST AS BAD ARE WRITTEN BELOW
(THIS IS ONLY "ONE" OF THE REASONS WHY NOT TO DO WHAT YOU DO)
There IS NO accusation made in this video, it was an example of someone using a rule breaking tactic that gives OTHER facebook users a false sense of security and "possible" misplaced trust in those they are adding... The blog post is built upon 3 days research into what this guy had to hide... and i still didn't no... Until today.. Read With An Open Mind.. DO NOT TROLL HERE OR RUN OFF HALF COCK'D
I guess a better phrase to of used would of been "ive only made this video today because the liverpool photo group private shares reminded me of the mother and baby group" but the video doesn't accuse anyone of anything.. I didn't want to screen shot it because its NOT my property to share.
Anyway.. I don't care if a persons bogus profile is morally honest and legit.. Because??..
It doesn't mean others out their are!!!
We can not be teaching people that you can get away with this on facebook..
1000's of people are doing this.. meaning MOST people just assume its NORMAL TODAY Because 10O0's ALSO do it FOR OTHER REASONS
and people all think it's ok... so they accept these strangers requests....
ITS NOT NORMAL!!! AND I FAIL TO SEE ANY GENUINE REASON FOR IT (besides facebook "games" even then its still wrong and risky) DON'T HAVE A GO AT ME.. NOT MY FAULT.
Just Ask Your Self... WHY?
Its not only against facebook rules what he (and many others) are doing.. But its also what these OTHER people do to get your Information or worse.. your kids photos!!!
But remember there are many Other BAD reasons as to why people do this...
I WAS NOT NOT SAYING HE IS A PAEDOPHILE!!!
I WAS NOT SAYING HE IS A BURGLAR!!!
I WAS SAYING THERE IS NO VALID REASON
TO USE FB THIS WAY..
**ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY CAP YOUR FRIENDS LIST**
AND THEY DELETE REPORTED ACCOUNTS THAT ARE CLEARLY USED AS PAGES
ALL THAT WORK IS THEN LOST.... WHEN ITS GENUINE...
READ THE RULES
BEFORE YOU BUILD UP AN AUDIENCE IN THE WRONG PLACE
BECAUSE ITS ALL GONE WHEN ITS REPORTED BY A TROLL
I posted a message warning kev (the user referenced in the video) about facebook rules and you could loose all that time and effort, then when i was asked why, i tried to explain why the rules in place and used the mother and baby group having a pedophile using the same account as page tactic to get onto peoples freinds lists, its a bad idea... kev said if thats what people think of me i will leave facebook, i said no im not saying you are, im saying thats one of the things it can be seen as.
THEN QUICK AS A FLASH.. 2 members of the group had a go at me... and asked who i was, even told kev to ban me. I told them to google TheWraith517, i am a liverpool film director and composer (as google shows, im not just some random unknown with no info about me anywhere... IT IS pretty clear IF YOU LOOKED FOR ONE MOMENT... i wasn't just some wack job tryna do someone down)
I told him its ONE of the possible reasons AND I CHOSE THAT REASON
(simply because ive heard about, seen it in person on a face to face level)
Then i was blocked from the group.... and everyone's not seeing what im trying to stop
AMONGST MANY OTHER REASONS CAN BE ANYTHING...
TO SEE YOUR CAR
WHERE YOU LEAVE KEYS IN THE HOUSE
WHAT TV YOU HAVE
THE LAYOUT OF YOUR HOME
WHAT DOG YOU HAVE.. DOG THEFT IS BIG NOW IN THE UK..
(or maybe they just wana know how to drug the dog size wise or were to place tainted meat)
Get some imagination and some FEAR.... for many of you.. your lifes online
COMMON ONE IN THE USA NOW IS GUN COLLECTIONS BEING STOLEN while your out.. Need a gun? find someone on youtube whos got plenty to show off, see if he's linked to facebook, check out his fb, see where he's checked in.. then raid his house... its that simple because people are this stupid!!!
(BUT nonce, burglar, photo stealer, seller of goods or what ever or not.. you act like one of these, you get perceived as one) You also help other people with less moral intentions to use these tactics.. because people just assume its OK.. It;s the Norm.. but trust me in many circles It's not...
So my initial message was meant as "you can't use facebook like this"
when i said my personall main reason as to why you can't i was blocked (but not by him) then someone loged into "his actual facebook" and blocked me (this has been admitted and is true)
The person who banned me, and the person who blocked me unfortunately fuelled my suspicions as things disappeared around me.. just for asking a simple question..
NO specific accusation was made here.. OR their.. nor was he called fit to burn
it was reasons of why i or others would suspected some form of foul play
(little did i know so many people on facebook do the things they do with no clue)
all this grew and also got backed up by the hasty actions of 2 people
(2 people i don't even know) one i have since spoken to and i understand her reasons
the other ive not spoken to nor do i understand her reasons
but the one who banned me is the reason "most" of you saw this blog page
private groups, hidden groups right off the bat don't speak much for trust
WHAT I WAS TRYING TO TEACH FB USERS CAN SAVE KIDS LIVES!!!
WHAT YOUR TEACHING FB USERS IS THAT DOING WHAT YOUR DOING IS FINE..
ITS OK TO "TRUST" PEOPLE IN THIS WAY
ITS NOT... THAT'S WHY THE RULE IS THEIR!!!!
Its also not just kids photos that are stollen when you add profiles you don't no.. you've got men pretending to be women maybe using images of your wife.. women pretending to be men.. using images of your husband.. The more photos of "YOU" or your KIDS these people out their have... the more/longer they can "String Along A Stranger" but its YOU or a loved one who's possibly going to face this stranger OR stalker. A Vast amount of people don't have lives any more.. their whole being centres around so called friends doing worse off than them... and we all have and have had mates like that..
Soaps, Reality Tv, Sunday Magazines.. whos having sex with who and Media turned most of population into totally immoral pieces of sh*t... with zero respect for others and a driven need to out do them, out class them in any way they can... and loads of people don't even grow out of that till their in their 40's and 50's.. some never actually do. Meanwhile your eating your tea.. playing poker, feeding your virtual chickens... While everyone's all over your uploads.. looking to do you over or use your images to troll around someone else.. OR WORSE
I read one story on a site how a girl had been sending baby pics to a guy so he thought she was a single mum, she didn't have kids, but she wanted the guy to think she was a mum with a kid rather than him thinking she was out clubbing.. she used someone elses kid so a guy online would spend more time talking to her and have more trust in her.. This dumb cow then had the stupidity to say she's finding it harder to get pictures of the baby she was sending because she doesn't see the friend who has the child much anymore and what should she do (another thing people use photos for) WTF...
After uploading MY video, i started to see "Related" videos down the side of youtube
This one for example is an interesting thought
But again... that group he suggests IN HIS VIDEO is a bigger opportunity for these people to get photos than the mother and baby groups are... because way more (real profiles) of people will be listed their, its a bigger cause isn't it... Most pages (the number of "likes" are never genuine) especially compared to groups member counts.. because many page owners use stat boosting sites and BUY Likes.
Then theirs THIS Video OUCH...
You give others a reason to accept this use of facebook with adding people over the "games"
Or "private photos in private groups"
facebook seams to of also dropped the ball with tagging and being mentioned in posts, the "wording" misleads many novice users by using the phrase "Friends of tagged" with a tick box,
then says under that "Note: Anyone tagged can also see this post."
|UN TICK THAT BOX|
now we (who are more into computers and web settings and computer terminology) know that 2nd one right,, hell that's why we tag them in it, so they see it and get notified, So why don't they emphasis that first one "Friends "OF" Tagged" Because that would mean if you tag me in an image (all my friends can see it)not just me.. what gives even my face to face friends the right to share an image i am tagged in (with my friends or project members im working with around the world) ?
I Disabled the option of showing images im tagged in with my friends, i had to set mine to ONLY ME.. because when you tag me in a photo it still gets shared with the friends (of friends) i also had to set Who can see what others post on your timeline? to only me
See it varies because facebook has sections for settings, and some settings complicate the others, if you look at say a photo your mates tagged you in, it'll say your mates shared it with you and your friends, thingy and their freinds and you and your freinds.. i had to change around THREE settings on MY account.. and get someone else to UNTICK that freinds of tagged and upload a photo.. then it went from
MAINE FRIEND who shared it and their friends, Someone else and that Someone elses friends and bob and bobs friends
MAINE FRIEND who shared it and their friends, Someone else and that Someone elses friends and bob
finally after all that messing around, something someone tags me in is no longer splattered everywhere before im even asked about it... yet only for PHOTOS.. i actually had to Remove the tag's to videos to get them off my wall
I Recommend you go to Privacy, "Future Posts" click "Custom" and un tick "Friends of tagged" because i bet a lot of your friends play fb games and add strangers who send energy and stuff, then that's another door bolted.. Scum bags using people you know.. to get to you.. while you and that person you know.. or may not no, has no idea its even happening. But it just takes someone to look at your friends, see which one shares 40 fkn game requests a day and add them... then bang.. friends of friends has just been abused...
FRIENDS OF TAGGED = UNKNOWN STRANGERS YOUR FRIENDS ADD FOR GAME ENERGY AND REQUESTS... ive seen people with 1000+ friends and im tagged in an image and they can all see it.
The only way to FULLY prevent this vulnerability is for "YOUR FRIENDS" NOT to upload images under the Friends of tagged setting!!!! AND also for YOU to turn OFF your OWN "show images of me im tagged in"
Also Realize This.... When people upload a PHOTO using a "Mobile Phone" its default FB album "Mobile Uploads" is set to share your upload with your friends and THEIR Friends... unless you change this setting.. and that "settings cog" does not work for multiple album editing.. you have to MANUALLY change the privacy of EVERY INDIVIDUAL MOBILE UPLOAD.. wtf fb.. you made this feature ON by default? and take months changing images 1 by 1??
So you upload.. sharing with gawd knows who.. the moment you tag someone...
ADULTS ARE THE TARGETS NOW.. BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW HOW THINGS "REALLY" WORK... IN TODAY'S WORLD.. ADULTS ARE GROOMED WITH MULTIMEDIA INVOLVING THEIR HOBBYS... SUCH GULLIBILITY : /
This "Specific" Blog post has had 880 views today so far...
Yet i am unable to see where that web traffic is coming from
I am going to assume i am a topic of debated within a "CLOSED HIDDEN" facebook group
So while i try and publicly get help with the evasion tactics, what ever is being planned against me in retaliation is being done so behind closed doors...
someone said i accused a 62 year old woman of being a pedophile.. no i never
I said "she is probably the one who banned me" can't these people read, wtf?
(and i would note a 60+ year old woman has been arrested for letting a 3rd party play with her grandchildren, as have 60+ year old males IN THE PAST)
Common sense says why does one assume a pedophile is always a male?
Or do only nuns in convents molester children?? jesus (pardon the pun)
and "why does one assume" i think this woman has any clue what's even going on?
I NEVER SAID SHE DOES... I DOUBT SHE'D HAVE A CLUE "EITHER WAY"
So when it comes to "CLOSSED PRIVATE GROUPS" i am not in them..
If you wish to talk ABOUT ME or even TO ME.. do it below where i can read it... and respond in PUBLIC (or you can message me on the wraith & friends page, the message button has always been available)
What i see here right now is 1008 curios people, i also see 192 partially more curios people
ALL of which are not siding with anyone "in public" besides 2 against my views (in that video) and 7 believe my views in that video.. But lets get one thing straight..
2 people disagree with the video, yet the video and the blog post are "Poles Apart" in any form of accusation and the video is completely Factual!!! the blog post is "observations" and "Assumptions" about things recorded on facebooks servers!!! But i am no judge...jury, accuser or anything, just a parent with an opinion about an avoided question that ide sleep better over if i had an answer.
Hasty actions throughout this have just made paranoid moments become & look worse(for this update i was right, i later found out i was doubly right.. how fkn bizzar is that)
First Death Threats Then Been Placed On My Life...
So much for them all going to the police... and having me for slander.. : /
I guess i should of said nothing and just dropped a 999 .. possibly wasted the polices time while destroying a guys life ... Hell someone only needs to of thrown out a PC or a Laptop 2 days before the police knock, the wifes never gona look at you the same way again in that situation right?.. we can't just judge and report certain "possible" crimes, it is not that simple, when someone vanishes out of existence though.. that causes genuine concern. Im a very creative person, i think a hell of a lot more than others.. and i don't do it on purpose, it is just how my mind works, a very stunted and closed off childhood elevated my creativity and my imagination... and my exploration of probabilities & end roads..
But remember this little fact to... So many alarm bells within this blog post where noted, 2 & 2 makes 0, if the guy holding the batteries for the calculator has vanished without a trace, I never raised that suspicion it was blatant, and from what ive heard, seen and people ive spoken to, the police would of caused more distress than what this has..
I still find it hard to believe i essentially stood alone on this subject...
my faith in humanity is slowly fading away....
while one guy couldn't talk to me, 2 people who tried to got lost with facebooks messaging delays, leaving me fishin in the dark
I Stated Why I Had Been Reluctant To Report Him...
And That's Why I Simply Attempted To Explain Why Not To Do What He Was Doing..
(the on set from offering that advice has gone way to far here)
Besides The Threat.. What I Uncovered While Wondering Why Just Left Me With To Many Uneasy Feelings By Things Ive Seen "And Noted Above" Way To Many Questions...
This issue "has" been resolved through 1 person both of us know, which is pretty fkn ironic because it was caused by people i don't no. But the hasty actions of two people trying to help actually made it worse
but hey.. accidents happen.. not every ones completely pc savi neither
The main lesson taught here though should be.. First and Foremost... Lock it down, check your facebook, use the "View As" Option.. check your kids facebooks accounts.. lock them down..
But yet the other lesson learnt here should also be don't step in the middle of 2 people talking with different time zones.. as it closes all avenues of communication...
Both of us.. Me & Kev have had sleepless nights due to interference and what looks to be a troll like manoeuvre, (note that's not me calling her a troll) its hard for me to explain without essentially shooting someone in the foot for being either "over protective" or "a rival group owner" or just a little to long in the tooth to realize how easy stuff goes "viral" on line, while then.. also hampered.. by a 2nd party who had disabled the last and only other line of communication..
See in the time frame between each of the original UPDATES
i had 1 trying to talk to me yet didn't have the ability or understanding to look at alternate methods (such as comment here) while i had another 1 making dam sure nothing i did could be seen by him and make him feel worse.. And i respect that (looking out for people) sadly facebook also done its typical and dropped 2 messages in my (other) inbox about 2 hours ago.. a little late fb.. both of which could of maybe solved this
"but tbh i doubt they would of" things wear too heated and the more i try to talk and explain.. the more people just tend to block.. Then.. I see that as truth hurts.. But others see that as i am fkn annoying & block.... so nothing gets resolved..
I am kinda really disappointed that this simply would never of come to a clean end if not for a fellow actor who starred in a few of our movies, he happened to know me & someone else on kevs side happened to know him.. and with him opening the actual line of communication between us both, i managed to ask the questions.. fill in the blanks and work out just wtf had actually gone on in the last 3 days, now kev actually knows what went on to. as do i, and im sorry a 3rd party had to be dragged into this mess, but then tbh its a good job he was...
The crazy thing is, even if the admin had sent a message to kev saying (ive blocked that guy)
Kev would of never been able to see me, to unblock me (because ide been blocked on his profile to)
3rd party's can be really helpful at times, then just wtf at other times : /
I have hopes at some stage we can work together on something,
even if its just a nice video slide show for some of his photography..
show him he doesn't have to hide it, he can copywrite it and get it out their
(earn off it for charity or even himself and future generations of the family)
those who know me know im creative, helpful and productive and i work in this field
But sometimes i see evasive people with more open minded eyes than others, doesn't make me bad, makes me a problem solver (when people are willing to "talk" rather than fight) again that wasn't kevs fault and just interference.
But people still need to realize here the message that got twisted.... facebook privacy is their for a reason, not everyone is honest, its also very bloody easy for things to snow ball, i mean luckily in this situation only 2 people essentially interfered & look at the fall out of that.. from my digging up info, reading between the lines, pulling it apart like a crime novel writer or movie scripter. lookin at all the holes, the whys, the wondering... why the fk it went that way.. all private and seedy in a hidden group.. a group i had no idea who owned, nor could i see it.
we all know the saying.. Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover...
dig through the pages... with the power of google its pretty easy to see who is trying to cause trouble & who is trying to prevent it.. And if you don't actually/honestly know how to do that, you need to ask someone else before passing judgement or even worse taking any actual legal or violent action...
I regret this blog post in many ways, but then ive finally got to meet someone who got the point i was making more than anyone else who read it or has been involved in this.. and he clicked right away.. and even though he got left in the dark as to why ide kept updating the blog... he still saw the initial warning and reason behind it... and removed the page based profile..
Kevs a star.. and in a good way, and although some seen this as me bashing him, i kept digging for info & asking for advice, i never bashed, i recorded information and thoughts as a log. I had more faith in him.. Or ide of picked up the phone from the get go.. posted it everywhere... this certainly isn't the kinda publicity i wana be known for... and kev will sleep soundly tonight.. as will i
I have my beady eye on the one who banned me for asking this question in the first place...
why? because that same person posted the link to this blog page in their own group afterwards...
Am I Being Paranoid Again??.. well its kinda shifty right? ban me for asking, then share it in your own group?.. why? to MAYBE slam the owner of another group? (PLEASE Note the question marks because some readers have an issue between a question and a statement).. As ive never been a member of that group that also now hides its self.. i can only take a members word for it.. From what i was told about the post, it simply said something like what do you think about this, you decide (and a link) that's a hell of a lot worse in my eyes than what i asked (and this blog post was so small back then to)
Anyway i asked a mate to join 2 of the groups.. to check it out for me... he was banned from both (as soon as the admin looked at his friends and saw me) yet me or anyone else has not been invading groups trolling and posting about this have we?
Someone being an admin in 2 rival groups is a bad idea, and they are rival when one admin does things behind the group owners back... as ive said.. if your unsure "ask someone" least then you've got a 2nd opinion, but more importantly, let your group/page owner know what ya doing....
But i no for a fact people who join kevs group, not many get in...4 tested, only one was a mutual, 4 where rejected from kevs, 3 got into hers (we don't know who approved them in hers or rejected them in kevs, so again, zero information and again no one has come forward with any more information)
Over Protective???, Or up to no good?????????..
If one admin of 2 groups uses one to out do the other then that's an internal issue
I am leaving that one up to the people's own imagination ...
tbh its not a debate im gona read anything else into.. not after this mess... and the fact i never saw that "share" or its "comments" ive kept this as a ??
One day that "I'm From Liverpool And Proud Of It"
may just one day be proud enough to go public!!
maybe the admin is great and she had a massive hunt for me behind closed doors
.. but ya no my research was pretty dam condemning as it piled up (it must of been, because everyone is accusing me of calling him a pedo) It really saddens me that out of the initial 880 only 2 people attempted to speak to me, and then facebook gave me them 2 messages almost 48 hours later...
Note that other group "I'm From Liverpool and F*KNG Proud Of It"
is NOT the same group (and no ones posted their since DEC 2011......)
What shocks me more about all this is not only do loads of people (who have been roped into this or just stuck their nose into this) The majority of them have all their children's photos "public" and many photos include their kids friends, yet lots of these people are having random sly digs and missing that original message i was trying to explain.
And if your open minded to that last paragraph above... then you would hate to see the cold hard facts and how i see them about the "Universal Jobmatch Web Site" granted people are forced by the benefits system to register their.. where as on facebook most just flaunt their life and other peoples...
Yet no one is told crucial key facts NOR the "Real Obligations" See the things Your told you MUST Adhere to, your actually NOT.. Meanwhile a large chunk of your life & easy access to your home is available via that site.. Coupled with facebook your whole live is easy access
Remember i am a creative writer, i find all the possible "Endings" in all the darkest corners and i WILL make a blog post about that to.. If YOU are registered on that job site.. then you should read it when its published.. Because EVERYONE ive spoken to had no fkn idea what the obligations ARE and what the risks to them ARE (not was) ARE, and ive told 5 advisor's who all looked shocked and said, ide never thought of that.. ive emailed the site to.. anyway look out for that post, its just as important as this one was meant to be...
If your a parent, and you know your kids "friends" parents and they sleep over, even do home work at someone elses house.. how bad do you feel thinking about asking if "THEY" happen to use facebook and are their any pictures of your kids at their kids birthday party on facebook? or at a ball game, or an open day, or even just a day they went the park? AND MORE IMPORTANTLY... ARE THE PICTURES PRIVATE...
JUST AS YOU FEEL RE-ASSURED THEY SAY ITS ALL FRIENDS ONLY....
YOU REALIZE THEY PLAY MASSES OF FACEBOOK GAMES AND HAVE 1000's OF FRIENDS
FKN OOOPS... or their adding people who use a profile as a page, their "settings" affect who can see you, anything YOU share with friends of friends is super wide open for misuse when you connect to an account used as a page :'(
Send your kids to their friends for an hours peace, nothing wrong at all with the people your sending them to.. besides MAYBE a little Naivety about how the internet works and how tactics play out and unfold
Don't let your kid have a smartphone with facebook?
They don't need one, they got school computers
hit your FB Profile, 3rd button (no logo) drops down and has VIEW AS,, do it as public and have a look.... also check out your Children's facebooks
BECAUSE EVERYONE IVE SPOKEN TO SO FAR IS WIDE OPEN BESIDES 2
THREE OF WHICH ARE SHOWING OTHER PEOPLES KIDS NOT PORN
BUT THAT'S BESIDES THE POINT...
An advert appeared in my girlfreinds newsfeed for the following FB groups
AND YOUR children MAY/ARE in the "Facebook Advert" thumbnail for these groups....
Fill My Family On A Budget
So many members are using their kids photo as their own profile image
(and their profiles a mess of crap fulla their kids and other peoples
Teen Mummies Official Recipe... couldn't read the rest of it with enterting the group..
So many members using their kids photo as their own profile image
(shown right across the advert)
And i hate to hit close to home AGAIN.. but
The Bootle Banter Bus
OUT OF THE 670 MEMBERS facebooks automated advert poster used the groups HEADER.. which in this case is NOT one image.. its a bar with the most active users faces on right???
THEIR WAS 6 USERS PHOTOS IN THE FACEBOOK ADVERT FOR THAT GROUP
AND FIVE OF THEM IMAGES WHERE CHILDREN
i can't show it as their are faces in it, but you've ALL SEEN SUGGESTED GROUP ADVERTS
So for many of them. your kids are adverts for them groups your in (that have no BANNER image and only shows members faces : /
READ THIS VERY FKN CAREFULLY...
I AM NOT HAVING A GO AT THE GROUPS!!!!
ITS THE PEOPLE USING THESE GROUPS WITH THEIR KIDS PHOTOS IN PLACE OF THEIR OWN, CAN PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THAT?? NOT THE GROUPS FAULT REALLY.. AND ONE OF THEM GROUPS NAMES DON'T FKN HELP TO.. TEEN MUMS wtf!!
but even so.. would you want your own face on an advert for a group, when the group could just have a banner or logo..
You only have to look at facebook where it says "PEOPLE YOU MAY KNOW" look at the amount of bs and p*ss poor account set ups and what they share.. some of you are mates with these people, they have your fkn kids over for tea.. IM NOT SAYING THEIR FKN PEIDOES REMEMBER THAT!!
ITS WHAT THEIR SHARING
OR THEIR KIDS ARE SHARING
THAT IS THE PROBLEM!!!
YOUR THE PARENTS HERE RIGHT?
so you don't have time to learn how to use facebook, you have a life, your kids can access it anywhere, your stuck in the middle, you don't use kids pics as your profile, but you do no your kids on facebook, you check when you can, but life is complicated.. some of your kids (friends parents) don't even look or care.
For those of YOU who use someone elses photo as your profile image
Look At It This Way..
You Stick A Picture Of A Dog In Your Living Room Window...
The Classic... WARNING I LIVE HERE,
Yet you use a picture of your child as a public profile picture.. online and you see nothing wrong with it...
you have no idea what your content could be getting used for OR WHERE....
IM JUST BANGING MY HEAD ON A WALL WITH SO MANY OF YOU
ITS REALLY UNREAL AND I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND IT
AND THE PEOPLE SHARING PICS THEIR OWN KIDS ARE IN... THAT ALSO INCLUDE OTHER PEOPLES CHILDREN IN...
Facebook wont even let you view what your "Friends" actual "Friends" can see on your profile
(remember Friends OF Friends IS a setting)
you CAN see how your wall looks to the PUBLIC or SPECIFIC FRIENDS
but the friends OF your actual friends the many 1000s when added together from all ur mates profiles.. These total strangers you DON'T KNOW.. and many your friends don't know...Have access to some stuff your tagged in depending on YOURS & YOUR FRIENDS upload settings...
You can't see what they have access to..
EVEN THOUGH THEY DO HAVE ACCESS IF YOUR SETTINGS ARE WRONG
AND MOST OF THEM ARE... AND IM SERIOUS... THEY ARE
Find a friend on your friends list, then look at "their" friends list, choose someone you DON'T no..
try typing their name in that box (the VIEW AS option on your profile).. It does nothing if you type a strangers name in their (if it does.. their on YOUR friends list to.. and that is NOT my point here.. use the name of a friends friend who isn't your friend)
Wont show you what they can see will it??
But this stranger is Not PUBLIC.. They are a FRIEND OF A FRIEND... in regards to tagging
Ok so say you upload a photo of MY kid at your party or sports day right
and you tag me in it (and EVEN IF i have opted to hide pictures OTHER PEOPLE tagged me in)
all the "Friends" of my "Friends" can see the photo, and some friends have strangers for games...
YOU CAN'T FIX THAT... YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY HAVE TO FIX IT ON THEIR FB
I really do have more updates for this like images of other settings boxes, but time is short these days, but their ARE CONFLICTS in facebooks Privacy settings that are hard to IRON OUT and take ALL USERS INVOLVED TO CHANGE THEM OR ITS USELESS
ANYONE REMEMBER THIS ONE???
Who sees tag suggestions when photos that look like you are uploaded? (this is not yet available to you)
It used to be available, i had murder over its Implications of misuse... this thing was a EPIC FK UP, some of you may remember it used to work, for some accounts on outdated servers or stored history (it may still do) MY CONCERN with this at the time was it had 3 options.. ONLY ME, FRIENDS,, ANYONE
and with the LACK OF FORESIGHT MOST PEOPLE HAVE many never even look at settings.. that is very evident what ive seen the last 6 days tryna educate and point things out...
WHAT IF YOU HAD THAT SET THAT TO ANYONE?
ok your out in a nightclub, spot someone ya fancy.. snap a photo, upload to facebook (but not publish it) just upload, wait for the box that said IS THIS? and offers you to tag specific people who the FB photo recognition system gets a match on... (if they where on facebook and it was set to anyone)
They now had your name. Your School. (hit the schoool page check out teachers of the year) your friends names.. head on over, after just 5 or 10 mins on facebook... hiya bla bla im thingy, their like uh?.. you don't remember me? uh no?... Then starts their BS.. I was in the year below u remember bla bla did that think to old doo daa, o yeah n laughs... i used to hang around with his cousen i was in the year below, i had murder with my parents that day.. why they ask.. because it was my idea and my fault.. was worth it though.. laugh laugh .. at this point if he or she likes (or your genuin sounding and funny enough to believe, or their just a little tipsy) YOU for one split second feel bad for not really remembering THEM and only remembering the event.. your now talking and feeling maybe guilty.. so you keep chatting...
But ber in mind how the fk he got his chat up lines : /
THIS WAS FKN SO SCARY IN MY EYES...
even old people.. nock nock.. who is it.. hi, its your daughters neighbour thingy.. then "name a child" has had a fall she "name the daughter" has been trying to ring you (as your saying some bullsh*t like, shes wondering if she sends, name kid 2 here in a taxi are you ok to mind them) in between the brackets some oap's are sliding the chain off the door in shock and and the amount of fkn info they are saying is well enough for some people right?
People also used it to OUT people who where gay or even transgendered
Simply uploading a photo from a club of a former lover in the arms of the new lover...
so all their family know their secret...
fb disabled it because people never understood this risk!!!
The TV Series "Person Of Interest"
The machine isn't some thing that's alive.. but its a real concept
type in a name and bang.. loads of information, photos, enough images to build a 3d image that a cctv camera can capture you from almost any view point.. at the moment facebook have no legal way to actually really Scan users for YOUR photos.. just like (c) companies look for MUSIC on youtube
well first you would have to ask facebook to run an image HASH META DATA OR Facial Recognition scan of every users profile, page and group to see if anyone else is using your photos.. but this would also mean
A) it would only help stop this on facebook
B) every facebook user would have to agree to allow facebook to scan their albums on a regular basis to stop this type of identification fraud
Youtube do it for copyright holders.. yet facebook wont do it for users who trust facebook with their photos, but lets face it.. you can not stop someone saving a photo of the internet.. or a video
The moment you look at a photo its inside your "Temporary Internet Folder"
thats why some pages run slow on sites with lots of images.. their coming down to your pc.. thats why youtube videos buffer... their downloading (streaming is a temporary download you can access because its downloaded)
THINGS YOU DO ON LINE PUT PEOPLE CLOSEST TO YOU IN FKN DANGER
PRIVACY IS IMPORTANT IN A WORLD OF PEOPLE WITH NO MONEY.. NO JOB.. A SYSTEM THAT'S CRUSHING THEM.. OPPORTUNITY THIEVES ARE ON THE RISE
Ile be round for a cup of tea once they turn up for the washing machine.. no its brand new, just they sent the wrong one, their coming around 2pm to pick it up dear...
1 rat bg fk turns up 2 hours early in a van with a clipboard.. here sign this love, thanks
they no ya NAME, they no theirs a washing machine being picked up
you just gave away how much? to a total stranger?
Just so you could get on with your day,, no idea of the impending sh*t storm heading YOUR WAY, their called "OPPORTUNIST THIEVES"
I AM NOT A CRIMINAL..
I JUST HAVE WAY MORE IMAGINATION...
YOU MAY THINK THATS TWISTED... ITS CREATIVE.. PREVENTATIVE
SHAME SO MANY OTHERS AREN'T TBH..
LOOK AT WHAT YOUR SHARING...
Honest intentions often get seen as a "what the fk are they after" well im after fk all besides YOU TOTAL STRANGERS LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR PRIVACY (in this topic)
In OTHER topics its how to retail your music, how to fix microsoft .net errors, how why and where...
AND NONE OF IT HAS EVER BEEN.. TO LEARN MORE BUY OR BOOK OR ONLINE COURSE HERE!!!!! ITS FREE... OR IS THAT THE PROBLEM, THINKING BECAUSE WHY IS THAT INFO IS FREE??
IF YOU READ THIS AND STILL HAVE IMAGES OF YOURS & OTHER PEOPLES KIDS NOT RESTRICTED TO JUST YOUR FRIENDS AT LEAST.. THEN YOU ARE A MORON AND SHOULD BE CHARGED WITH RECKLESS CHILD ENDANGERMENT AND THAT'S JUST FOR STARTERS..
AND DON'T ADD ME ON FACEBOOK IF YOU DON'T KNOW ME FFS, IM NOT YOUR TECH SUPPORT.. LIKE MY PAGE IF YOU WANT "PAGE" OR FOLLOW MY BLOG... BUT MY PERSONAL LIFE IS NOT REALLY ANYTHING TO DO WITH STRANGERS.. I HAVE A PAGE FOR THAT FOLKS AND A BLOG, TWITTER, LOADS OF PLACES ;)
TIME WASTED SPENDING 2 HOURS TRYNA TEACH SOMEONE SOMETHING (ON A PERSONAL ONE TO ONE LEVEL) THAT'S SO BASIC THAT GOOGLE COULD EXPLAIN IT FOR YOU... IS 2 HOURS I COULD OF DONE 2 HOURS OF MUSIC OR 1 OR 2 TUTORIALS to help thousands... MAYBE EVEN HAD A LIFE...
ANYWAY.. after recent issues i now choose what i make these tutorials about, and i choose matters i think are Important to the MANY... and MAY CHANGE THINGS FOR THE BETTER
Rather than 1 persons issue when i don't even know them. Time is to short i am afraid. SO if i drop a comment on something to do you a favour & you don't get it, maybe just fkn google what i said.... I mean who really just replay's to a help comment with the word WHAT? who reads a message and says WHAT?, its like WHAT.. to the whole thing or WHAT to it all.. Really finding less time for stupid people who choose to party and play hard & then expect others to do the brain work to..
I Don't help people for money, and tbh i think only ROUGHLY 8 people in my life know that and respect that and that's why they come to me for repairs, because they trust me and i get to the bottom of problems.. unless people hinder it..
SO WHEN OTHER UNKNOWN FOLKS ARE DONE CAUSING TROUBLE
TAKE A DAM GOOD LOOK AT YOUR PROFILES AND YOUR ACTIONS ON-LINE YOUR SELF... THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU SHARE AND THE WAYS YOU SHARE IT TO PEOPLE
IF you want more TIPS on this stuff, check out the Universal Jobmatch Website Post HERE
THAT ALSO WARNS ABOUT SOCIAL MEDIA and HOME INSURANCE and MANY OTHER BITS OF STUFF MOST OF YOU HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT....
ANOTHER UPDATE BECAUSE FACEBOOK JUST SPLATTERD MY WALL BECAUSE ONE OF MY FRIENDS UPDATED THEIR SETTINGS YEAH THATS HOW FKD IT IS NOW
WARNING READ THIS
read it very VERY VERY carefully....
****IF***** YOU USE THIS OPTION....
IT WILLL SHARE ANYTHING (PICTURE/VIDEO/COMMENT/STATUS/MOOD) YOU TAGGED (OR MENTIONED IN A POST) WITH THEIR THE ACTUAL FRIENDS.... OF THE PERSON YOU TAGGED OR MENTIONED EVEN IF YOU INITIALLY SET THAT TO ONLY BE SHARED WITH THE INDIVIDUAL PEOPLE YOU TAGGED OR MENTIONED AT THE TIME....
YOU WILL FILL OTHER PEOPLES TIME LINE HISTORYS WITH STUFF THEY MAY OF EVEN REMOVED FROM THEIR TIMELINE... (YOU WILL RETURN IT) IT WILL RETURN UNDER THE DATE IT WAS UPLOADED OR IT WAS TAGGED!!!!
AND THEIR IS NO WAY TO STOP FRIENDS TAGGING YOU...
YES YOU CAN REVIEW "IF" IT WILL BE SHOWN ON YOUR TIME LINE
BUT THATS NO FKN GOOD WHEN PEOPLE HIT LIMIT PAST POSTS AND IT THEN SHARES IT BACK ON YOU TIME LINE.... WHEN YOU INITIALLY REFUSED IT PERMISSION
I WANA TURN OFF TAGGING, I DON'T WANT ANYONE TAGGING ME IN ANYTHING.... NOT WHEN I CAN REFUSE IT... THEN ITS PLACED ON MY TIMELINE BEHIND MY BACK BY FB'S PISS POOR CONFLICTS... WTF...
someone may wana contact an actual HUMAN working for facebook.. because this is just WRONG!!!! how can they give people the power to essentially MAKE EVERYTHING VISIBLE... WHEN THINKING THEIR MAKING IT SAFER???
Your gona see stuff like
SHARED WITH THE FRIENDS OF WHO POSTED IT, AND THE FREINDS OF ANYONE TAGGED.. FRIENDS OF FRIENDS IE PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW AT ALL.. THEIR NOT EVEN ON YOUR FRIENDS LIST... THEY (TERMINOLOGY) ARE ACQUAINTANCES...
IE.. TOTALY STRANGERS YOUR MATES ADDED FOR GAME BOOSTING STUFF
YOUR REAL MATES ARE SHARING YOUR STUFF WITH PEOPLE THEY DON'T EVEN NO, THIS THINGS A TOTAL FKN MESS.....
The Irony of it.. "Limit The Audience" for MANY of you who have ALWAYS known how to use facebook, you'll understand just how much that EXPANDS the Audience (ON OTHERS WALLS) for old posts (WHILE YOUR WALL IS SAFER MINE IS NOT) if you where to use it your self..
Were it says "Remember people who are tagged and their friends may see those posts as well" should say WARNING so you pay more attention to it....
And where it says "You also have the option to individually change..." the word YOU would also rise to read it properly if using the word ALTERNATIVELY..
BACK IN THE DAY WE HAD A CHOICE OF WHO COULD SEE WHAT WHERE TAGGED IN... I FAIL TO SEE THAT FEATURE ANY MORE WHEN THE SYSTEM CAN DO THIS.... AND AS LONG AS I HAVE NO OPTION TO STOP PEOPLE TAGGING ME (RATHER THAN THIS PATHETIC OPTION OF REVIEW BEFORE IT GOES ON YOUR WALL)
IT ENDS UP ON YOUR WALL ANYWAY OF THE OTHER USER DECIDES TO LIMIT ALL POSTS... IF THIS MAKES NO SENSE GET SOMEONE ELSE TO EXPLAIN IT FOR YOU...
I do NOT have the finest Grammar.. but i swear web sites fkn boxes are a joke...
Lets all use the word Dashboard coz its cool, or maybe the word HOME..
hell shall we have on are all new unable to navigate page that we force onto users.. shall we use Log In, sign in.. shall we have sign up, or register, or maybe even create an account..
If you have tried to LIMIT THE AUDIENCE ON PAST POSTS ANYONE AT ALL YOU TAGGED OR MENTIONED ON A ANYTHING AT ALL... IS NOW VISABLE BY THEIR FRIENDS... AND ITS NOW BACK ON THEIR WALL EVEN IF THEY REMOVED IT
JUST AS PATHETIC THIS AS MANY OF THE USERS....
PEOPLE WONDER WHY SO MANY HAVE PROBLEMS...
This is such a massive invasion of privacy and a misuse of my account (by 3rd party accounts) facebook has given "other users" control on what is shown on my timeline.. with ONE CLICK... A click they think their doing good by clicking....
YOUR NO LONGER SHARING WITH FRIENDS OF FRIENDS BUT YET YOU ARE SHARING WITH
FRIENDS OF "THE" FRIENDS... THAT YOU TAGGED....